I Can Do It Myself
A few years ago, I fractured my leg just before Diwali. Diwali is my favourite festival. I love cleaning the house, decorating it, getting everything…
Sneha Maheshwri · Inner child, ancestral & womb healing
I was the overachiever. The perfectionist. The one who always had it together — until the cracks beneath the surface could no longer stay hidden.

A trauma-informed therapist works with the pattern underneath the problem rather than the problem you came in describing. I am Sneha Maheshwri, a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach. I help people uncover the stories they have unconsciously carried, from childhood, from the womb, and from the generations before them, so they can reconnect with who they were always meant to be. Sessions are one to one, online or in person. For an in-person session, email maheshwrisneha@gmail.com.
01How I came to this work
Behind the gold stars and the good-girl mask were quiet years of depression, relationship pain, self-worth struggles, and one aching question that refused to go away: who am I, really?
That question led me to the world of trauma healing. Not as a student first, but as someone deeply in need of the work. I went looking for a technique and found something closer to a reckoning.
Today I am a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach. My practice weaves together inner child healing, intergenerational trauma resolution, family constellation work, womb healing, and somatic practices rooted in nervous system regulation.
This is not just my profession. It is my path, my purpose, and the most meaningful work I know.
I have sat with people who arrived apologising for taking up time. Who described a childhood as “not that bad” in the first ten minutes and then wept in the fortieth. Who had already read every book, done every course, and still could not work out why the same thing kept happening to them.
What I have learned is that we do not suffer because of events alone. We suffer because of the meanings our nervous system quietly assigned to them, years before we had any say in it. Change the event and nothing moves. Reach the meaning and everything does.
02Who I work with
I work with overachievers who are quietly burning out, adults carrying childhood wounds, and people stuck in painful relationship loops. I also support those who feel lost in their identity or weighed down by generational pain.
Whether you are navigating depression, self-worth struggles, or just feeling like you have lost touch with who you really are, your story is safe here. We sit with it all. No shame. No judgment. No rush.
This is where the healing begins. And where your truth returns.
03Ways to heal
I do not run one modality and force every problem through it. We start with where your body is willing to begin, and the method follows from that.
For you, if the pattern keeps repeating and you cannot find the root of it
Ongoing one-to-one work that moves between inner child healing, ancestral and systemic work, and nervous system regulation, depending on what your body brings to each session.
One to one, online on Zoom or in person. Twelve or twenty-four session journeys, each session 90 to 120 minutes.
For you, if the problem does not feel like it started with you
A systemic session that makes the invisible structure of your family visible, so you can see which burdens are yours and which were handed to you.
Online on Zoom, one to one or in a facilitated group. One to one in person on request.
For you, if you are still trying to earn the love you should have been given
Work with the parts of you that learned to be good, quiet, useful or perfect in order to stay safe, and that are still running the show decades later.
One to one, online on Zoom or in person. Usually part of a twelve or twenty-four session journey rather than a single sitting.
For you, if the fear feels older than any memory you can name
Work with the nine stages of womb imprints: what you absorbed from your mother's emotional world before you had language, and what your body still organises itself around.
One to one, online on Zoom or in person.
04In their words
I started working with Sneha when I just got off medication for depression. Even though symptoms had improved, I felt heaviness inside, lost sense of self and lot of dissociation. Through our work together these symptoms have gone from a scale of 9 to 3. With all this my family has grown closer. I dint come with that objective or may be thats what my inner child wanted but my focus was on leading a healthy life as an adult and get back to my confident self with no fear of relationships.
I am so grateful I could make a huge movement on only 9 sessions. I feel more settled within me in the sense that I am calm and driven from within, not rushing or fearing the world. I dont think I can express in words my respect and gratitude Sneha, so here is a sincere thank you for doing what you do with such honesty, humility and sincerity.
Also, thank you for the session of 7W last thursday. After a very long time I feel like an excited student waiting for Thursday. Thank you🙏🏻
Dear sneha
Although i deliberately do therapy but all of it feels superficial
Because it's very hard for me to break the walls that I have built over the years..
But the session that I did with you cracked me open and my emotions flowed .
I have never cried at sessions but I visited many versions of my inner child and released the pent up emotions
I was able to connect and understand my mom with a compassion like never before
And it gave me clarity on why I was continuously working and proving myself and i am making space to slow down
Sneha is a gifted healer
Her voice is firm but comforting
She guides with so much gentleness
This healing session opened many insights for me and im so glad I did it
Immense gratitude for the work ure doing sneha
I have been gentler with myself since the session
More present with my children and not stuffing myself with food
But sitting with my emotions
The child in me is so happy to see how my dad and I are talking. I am containing my joy and tears while I am writing to you. I am so happy I made the decision to work with you. I never knew I could have a family with both parents, I always have lived one parent at a time life. I had no intention but to just work on myself.
Last night, something funny happend and we all end up sleeping in one room. I cant tell you what it meant for me. My Inner Child felt so safe and playful.
I know life isnt going to be perfect and there will be ups and down.
It feels like I have more strength to see my family, beyond their obvious roles. And to see my life, beyond my own family lens. God bless you❤️
This is going to be a long and emotional one!!😊 I first met Sneha ji when my dearest bhabhi gifted me Sneha's Family constellation session,Yes we do that in our family now 😄The healing she brought in one session of Family constellation was just incredible and it shifted a lot of things in my life! but I left it till there only.
After some time by god's grace I gifted my husband Sneha's Family Constellation session and again her wonderful healing brought so much peace in my husband's life and he decided to sign up with her and after sometime I decided to sign up with Sneha too and It was one of the best decisions of our lives ,the best investment we made on ourselves.We could have easily renovated our house made it more cosier but we decided it was more important to be in a better mind and body space.
My life was literally falling apart when I signed up with Sneha ji my son was having huge temper tantrums,anger outbursts and I felt failed as a mother even though I was trying my best.The relationship I had with my husband was a loving one but we started to drift apart in the daily chaos of life and parenting and it was filling up with anger resentment and distance.My inlaws were just adding to the mess and my mother wound was too deep making me realise that I am not good enough at every step! I was becoming a very bitter angry and resentful person.Sneha ji very beautifully brought inner child healing, somatic healing, intergenerational work in my sessions & I don't even remember how many times I have just cried like a child infront of her but she just held my hand walked me through the path of healing which was painful but it was definitely doable only bcoz of her!! She is amazing beyond words❤️Today my son's temper tantrums have reduced drastically as my anger has reduced.I have a better relationship with my spouse and I was able to speak my truth to him after almost 10 years of simply lying.The bond I share with my mother has also improved I am receptive towards her love now🥰 as for my in-laws I do have my distance from them but it's a peaceful respectful distance and not full of anger hate or resentment.Lastly the most important change that came in my life bcoz of Sneha ji is my connection with the Divine has deepen my belief in him has increased and my fears are melting away all bcoz of the path Sneha ji showed me..
I am so so grateful to God that we were blessed to have found you Sneha ji 🙏🏻 You are an amazing gifted healer and 💎 gem of a person.I pray for your good health happiness abundance success each day 🙏🏻 Keep Shining your divine light in this world..It's truly changing lives..
Hello Sneha ji
Wanted to share this update with you😊
As u know I am travelling soon and it's the first time I am feeling that pain or itch for staying away from my husband otherwise whenever I use to travel I would always be happy and won't think much about my husband or call him when I was at my native...This time it's different feeling that true respecful love for him now..it's already over an decade for us to be married have a kid but now it's feels like matured love...thank you for making me receptive towards his love too...We are able to bring that love and respect in our marriage now .Thanks to your sessions 😊🙏🏻 we are resolving issues quickly earlier the fights would go on for days weeks..Thanks a million for bringing a new lease of life in our marriage as well😊🙏🏻 really grateful to you!!
Hi Sneha, good morning. Thank you for this session. Today's session made me feel great, first of all, I felt very safe, very secure. I've never felt so safe in my life.
It felt like... you've been lost, and then you see your mom in front of you and hug her... that's the safety I felt. I'm trying to explain it this way, because after this session, I had tears in my eyes, but they weren't tears of sadness, they were tears of happiness, safety, security.
I'm feeling very safe, I can't explain it in words, how safe and secure I feel. 🙏
I also felt seen and accepted, and I didn't feel like I'm unnecessary or insignificant. I didn't know these emotions existed within me, but I was able to see them, and things have changed inside me.
I can't even explain how safe and secure I'm feeling after the session. It's especially significant because i lost your mom in real life 10 years ago. I'm actually feeling very secure. Thank you so much for this session. Have a great day, and yeah, thank you so much once again
Lots of love n gratitude 🙏
05For practitioners
Two professional trainings, for therapists, coaches, healers and facilitators who keep meeting the same ceiling in their client work.
For everyone from absolute beginners to practitioners who keep hitting the same ceiling
A professional certification that combines inner child work, ancestral and systemic constellation approaches, somatic and nervous system work, trauma inquiry models, and compensatory subpersonality integration into one coherent method.
For practitioners who want to work at the earliest layer of all
Three months of live training, then three months of continued handholding, in accessing, decoding, healing and regenerating the nine stages of womb imprints. Four live demonstrations, supervised practice, and a practitioner blueprint for bringing it into your own practice.
06Writing
I write about what actually happens in healing, including the parts nobody puts on a brochure.
A few years ago, I fractured my leg just before Diwali. Diwali is my favourite festival. I love cleaning the house, decorating it, getting everything…
It’s been a year and a half since I left my marriage, and there have been so many changes. Small ones, mostly. The kind nobody would notice, except…
Some time back, a client asked me, “Why do I keep choosing this person who doesn’t love me the way I love them? I keep wishing things could be…
Lately, I have been struggling with my elder one. He is twelve plus now. And I can feel him moving away from the little boy I knew into someone I am…
07Before you write to me
I am a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach. I am not a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist, and I do not prescribe medication or make diagnoses.
My training is multidisciplinary. I am certified in the Advanced Intergenerational Trauma Coaching Certification Program, the Deka Method, with Dr. Gaurav Deka (2023 to 2024), and in Basic Inner Child Healing in Systemic and Family Therapy with Dr. Gaurav Deka under Cognial Healers Academy (2023). I have also studied online with Suzi Tucker, without certification. Alongside that sit womb work and somatic practices rooted in nervous system regulation. You can see the full list on the about page.
Two things I am not, because people ask: I am not certified in TRE, and I am not certified in Internal Family Systems. If a practitioner claims a modality, ask them which certificate it rests on.
Overachievers who are quietly burning out. Adults carrying childhood wounds. People stuck in painful relationship loops. Those who feel lost in their identity or weighed down by generational pain. A large part of my practice is people who look entirely fine from the outside, which is often exactly why nobody has ever asked them how they are.
Yes to both. Trainings run on Zoom, and 1:1 sessions run on Zoom or in person. For an in-person session, email maheshwrisneha@gmail.com. I am based in India and work in IST, and I hold sessions for clients across India and abroad. I work in English and Hindi. If your time zone makes IST difficult, say so when you write and we will find a slot that is not at three in the morning for you.
No, and I will say so plainly if I think you need clinical care alongside this work. Several of my clients have come to me while on medication or after tapering off it under a doctor's supervision, and that combination can work well. What I will not do is ask you to choose between the two, or suggest that healing means stopping treatment. If you are in crisis, please reach clinical support first.
The first consultation is free, and it is not a fifteen-minute sales call. You fill in a questionnaire first, then we speak for sixty to ninety minutes. That length is deliberate: it is long enough for you to get a real sense of me, and for me to tell you honestly whether what you are carrying is something I can help with. If it is not, I will say so and point you elsewhere. Start by writing through the contact page.
It depends on what you are carrying and how long you have carried it, and anyone who gives you a number without meeting you is guessing. A single family constellation session can shift something significant in one sitting. Patterns built over thirty years usually want a twelve or twenty-four session journey. One client described moving from a self-rated nine to a three on their symptoms in nine sessions. That is their experience, not a promise about yours.
Next step
If you feel called to connect, enquire, or simply share what is on your heart, write to me. This is a safe space, and I personally look forward to hearing from you.