Mid life crisis and sparkless marriages
Sometimes a marriage doesn’t break. It slowly becomes something else. You still sleep beside each other. You still ask, “Did you eat?” “What time will you…
Sneha Maheshwri · Inner child, ancestral & womb healing
I was the overachiever. The perfectionist. The one who always had it together — until the cracks beneath the surface could no longer stay hidden.

What does a trauma-informed therapist actually do?
A trauma-informed therapist works with the pattern underneath the problem rather than the problem you came in describing. I am Sneha Maheshwri, a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach. I help people uncover the stories they have unconsciously carried, from childhood, from the womb, and from the generations before them, so they can reconnect with who they were always meant to be. Sessions are one to one and online.
01How I came to this work
Behind the gold stars and the good-girl mask were quiet years of depression, relationship pain, self-worth struggles, and one aching question that refused to go away: who am I, really?
That question led me to the world of trauma healing. Not as a student first, but as someone deeply in need of the work. I went looking for a technique and found something closer to a reckoning.
Today I am a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach, trained in a multidisciplinary approach that weaves together inner child healing, intergenerational trauma resolution, family constellation work, womb healing, and somatic practices rooted in nervous system regulation.
This is not just my profession. It is my path, my purpose, and the most meaningful work I know.
I have sat with people who arrived apologising for taking up time. Who described a childhood as “not that bad” in the first ten minutes and then wept in the fortieth. Who had already read every book, done every course, and still could not work out why the same thing kept happening to them.
What I have learned is that we do not suffer because of events alone. We suffer because of the meanings our nervous system quietly assigned to them, years before we had any say in it. Change the event and nothing moves. Reach the meaning and everything does.
02Who I work with
I work with overachievers who are quietly burning out, adults carrying childhood wounds, and people stuck in painful relationship loops. I also support those who feel lost in their identity or weighed down by generational pain.
Whether you are navigating depression, self-worth struggles, or just feeling like you have lost touch with who you really are, your story is safe here. We sit with it all. No shame. No judgment. No rush.
This is where the healing begins. And where your truth returns.
03Ways to heal
I do not run one modality and force every problem through it. We start with where your body is willing to begin, and the method follows from that.
For you, if the pattern keeps repeating and you cannot find the root of it
Ongoing one-to-one work that moves between inner child healing, ancestral and systemic work, and nervous system regulation, depending on what your body brings to each session.
Online, one to one, on Zoom. Twelve or twenty-four session journeys, each session 90 to 120 minutes.
For you, if the problem does not feel like it started with you
A systemic session that makes the invisible structure of your family visible, so you can see which burdens are yours and which were handed to you.
Online, one to one or in a facilitated group, on Zoom.
For you, if you are still trying to earn the love you should have been given
Work with the parts of you that learned to be good, quiet, useful or perfect in order to stay safe, and that are still running the show decades later.
Online, one to one, on Zoom. Usually part of a twelve or twenty-four session journey rather than a single sitting.
For you, if the fear feels older than any memory you can name
Work with the nine stages of womb imprints: what you absorbed from your mother's emotional world before you had language, and what your body still organises itself around.
Online, one to one, on Zoom.
04In their words
I started working with Sneha when I just got off medication for depression. Even though symptoms had improved, I felt heaviness inside, lost sense of self and lot of dissociation. Through our work together these symptoms have gone from a scale of 9 to 3. With all this my family has grown closer… I am so grateful I could make a huge movement on only 9 sessions. I feel more settled within me in the sense that I am calm and driven from within, not rushing or fearing the world.
Although i deliberately do therapy but all of it feels superficial. Because it's very hard for me to break the walls that I have built over the years… But the session that I did with you cracked me open and my emotions flowed. I have never cried at sessions but I visited many versions of my inner child and released the pent up emotions. I was able to connect and understand my mom with a compassion like never before… I have been gentler with myself since the session. More present with my children and not stuffing myself with food. But sitting with my emotions.
The child in me is so happy to see how my dad and I are talking. I am containing my joy and tears while I am writing to you. I am so happy I made the decision to work with you. I never knew I could have a family with both parents, I always have lived one parent at a time life… Last night, something funny happend and we all end up sleeping in one room. I cant tell you what it meant for me. My Inner Child felt so safe and playful.
My life was literally falling apart when I signed up with Sneha ji. My son was having huge temper tantrums, anger outbursts and I felt failed as a mother even though I was trying my best… Today my son's temper tantrums have reduced drastically as my anger has reduced. I have a better relationship with my spouse and I was able to speak my truth to him after almost 10 years of simply lying. The bond I share with my mother has also improved.
This time it's different feeling that true respecful love for him now.. it's already over an decade for us to be married have a kid but now it's feels like matured love… thank you for making me receptive towards his love too. We are able to bring that love and respect in our marriage now. Thanks to your sessions we are resolving issues quickly, earlier the fights would go on for days, weeks.
Today's session made me feel great, first of all, I felt very safe, very secure. I've never felt so safe in my life. It felt like… you've been lost, and then you see your mom in front of you and hug her… that's the safety I felt… after this session, I had tears in my eyes, but they weren't tears of sadness, they were tears of happiness, safety, security… I also felt seen and accepted, and I didn't feel like I'm unnecessary or insignificant. I didn't know these emotions existed within me.
05For practitioners
Two professional trainings, for therapists, coaches, healers and facilitators who keep meeting the same ceiling in their client work.
For everyone from absolute beginners to practitioners who keep hitting the same ceiling
A professional certification that combines inner child work, ancestral and systemic constellation approaches, somatic and nervous system work, trauma inquiry models, and compensatory subpersonality integration into one coherent method.
For practitioners who want to work at the earliest layer of all
Three months of live training, then three months of continued handholding, in accessing, decoding, healing and regenerating the nine stages of womb imprints. Four live demonstrations, supervised practice, and a practitioner blueprint for bringing it into your own practice.
06Writing
I write about what actually happens in healing, including the parts nobody puts on a brochure.
Sometimes a marriage doesn’t break. It slowly becomes something else. You still sleep beside each other. You still ask, “Did you eat?” “What time will you…
A client said to me recently, “I don’t feel like asking my partner for money.” I knew what she meant. Perhaps because I belong to the women for whom asking…
I recently watched Musafir Cafe. When the film ended, I noticed something uncomfortable about which character I had been quietly rooting for.
One of the questions I get asked surprisingly often is, “Should I tell my partner about my past relationships?” People usually expect me to answer
07Before you write to me
I am a trauma-informed therapist, trainer and coach. I am not a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist, and I do not prescribe medication or make diagnoses.
My training is multidisciplinary. I am certified in the Advanced Intergenerational Trauma Coaching Certification Program, the Deka Method, with Dr. Gaurav Deka (2023 to 2024), and in Basic Inner Child Healing in Systemic and Family Therapy with Dr. Gaurav Deka under Cognial Healers Academy (2023). I have also studied online with Suzi Tucker, without certification. Alongside that sit womb work and somatic practices rooted in nervous system regulation. You can see the full list on the about page.
Two things I am not, because people ask: I am not certified in TRE, and I am not certified in Internal Family Systems. If a practitioner claims a modality, ask them which certificate it rests on.
Overachievers who are quietly burning out. Adults carrying childhood wounds. People stuck in painful relationship loops. Those who feel lost in their identity or weighed down by generational pain. A large part of my practice is people who look entirely fine from the outside, which is often exactly why nobody has ever asked them how they are.
Yes to both. All sessions and trainings run on Zoom. I am based in India and work in IST, and I hold sessions for clients across India and abroad. I work in English and Hindi. If your time zone makes IST difficult, say so when you write and we will find a slot that is not at three in the morning for you.
No, and I will say so plainly if I think you need clinical care alongside this work. Several of my clients have come to me while on medication or after tapering off it under a doctor's supervision, and that combination can work well. What I will not do is ask you to choose between the two, or suggest that healing means stopping treatment. If you are in crisis, please reach clinical support first.
The first consultation is free, and it is not a fifteen-minute sales call. You fill in a questionnaire first, then we speak for sixty to ninety minutes. That length is deliberate: it is long enough for you to get a real sense of me, and for me to tell you honestly whether what you are carrying is something I can help with. If it is not, I will say so and point you elsewhere. Start by writing through the contact page.
It depends on what you are carrying and how long you have carried it, and anyone who gives you a number without meeting you is guessing. A single family constellation session can shift something significant in one sitting. Patterns built over thirty years usually want a twelve or twenty-four session journey. One client described moving from a self-rated nine to a three on their symptoms in nine sessions. That is their experience, not a promise about yours.
Next step
If you feel called to connect, enquire, or simply share what is on your heart, write to me. This is a safe space, and I personally look forward to hearing from you.